In the ever-unfolding drama of Sister Wives, it’s becoming painfully clear that Kody and Robyn Brown have reached a new peak of self-importance—and not in a good way. Fans are increasingly fed up with their behavior, labeling it cringeworthy, out of touch, and completely detached from reality. Kody’s erratic emotional responses and Robyn’s carefully curated victimhood are no longer just frustrating—they’re downright bizarre.

Week after week, Kody parades across the screen with the maturity of a teenager having a tantrum, and fans are left wondering how he continues to justify his actions. Many are baffled by how comfortable he is acting out like this on national television. It’s not entertaining anymore—it’s just uncomfortable. Viewers feel secondhand embarrassment watching Kody fumble through family dynamics while trying (and failing) to come off as a leader. His emotional outbursts, delusional comments, and overprotective obsession with Robyn have moved beyond dramatic TV fodder into the realm of “What is going on here?”As for Robyn, her behavior alongside Kody is just as confusing. The pair have become the most alienating personalities in the series, with social media lighting up every week in unified frustration. Reddit threads, Twitter debates, and YouTube commentary are flooded with viewers asking the same question: how do these two continue to act like they’re above everyone else, when nobody even likes them?

Fans have started praising Janelle for taking a more assertive role in recent episodes, particularly in how she addresses the power dynamics that have slowly stripped the family of its original foundation. Janelle, once known for her calm demeanor and loyalty to the family structure, has begun openly questioning the narrative that Kody and Robyn have spun for years. In a series of clever, calmly delivered truth bombs, Janelle has exposed their entitlement and hypocrisy without resorting to theatrics. Her subtle digs speak volumes—especially when she implies that Kody has purposely positioned himself as the villain to shield Robyn from criticism.

Janelle has even speculated that Kody’s transformation from father and husband to full-time antagonist may be a calculated move. In her words, he might be “making himself the bad guy to protect Robyn.” If true, it’s a bold and deeply manipulative tactic—but one that might backfire spectacularly.

While Robyn paints herself as the overwhelmed, misunderstood wife who just wants peace, longtime viewers see a very different picture. From her very first appearance, there have been subtle—and not-so-subtle—hints that she was maneuvering things behind the scenes. From delaying her wedding to Kody to secure more time to adjust, to needing the first rental home in Vegas, Robyn consistently positioned herself as the one who needed the most, deserved the most, and got the most. What appeared at first to be accommodations made out of love and fairness now looks a lot more like special treatment—enabled by Kody and resented by everyone else.

The favoritism hasn’t gone unnoticed by the original wives. It’s become clear that Kody has been enabling Robyn’s demands at the expense of his relationships with the rest of the family. Even in moments when finances were tight, Robyn’s home was reportedly filled with assets totaling hundreds of thousands of dollars, while Kody splurged on watches, jewelry, and unnecessary gear. Meanwhile, other wives struggled to get clarity on basic needs or financial stability. Fans are calling it what it is: entitlement run wild.

The infamous legal divorce between Kody and Meri, which cleared the path for Kody to legally marry Robyn, has also come under renewed scrutiny. Many now believe Robyn orchestrated this move under the guise of “family needs” while fully intending to secure her place as the legal wife. While Meri’s heartbreak was on full display, she may have truly believed that sacrificing her legal status was a selfless act. But in hindsight, it appears she was manipulated.

These revelations have caused Janelle—and fans—to ask pointed questions. Did Robyn and Kody plan this all along? Was the breakdown of the plural marriage inevitable the moment Robyn entered the picture? There’s mounting evidence that the emotional and structural unraveling of the Brown family began with Robyn’s arrival. And the more they try to deny it, the more obvious it becomes.

Despite all this, one thing is certain: Janelle is done. And her newfound freedom to speak her mind is thrilling fans. She’s no longer interested in preserving Kody’s image or enabling his favoritism. Her casual use of phrases like “dude” and “bro” have added an unexpected layer of relatability—many believe she’s channeling the voice of the audience, saying exactly what fans have been screaming at their TVs for years. 

There’s a sense that Janelle, now secure enough legally and financially, is finally ready to call out the dysfunction. Viewers are celebrating this version of her, calling her the unsung heroine of the season. If she ever publishes a tell-all book, it’s guaranteed to be a bestseller. And as for Christine—whose own memoir is set to drop soon—she’s already paving the way for the wives to reclaim their narratives.

The show itself, many argue, has begun to mirror professional wrestling. Kody plays the heel—the villain you love to hate—while Robyn once tried to be the babyface, only to become the most disliked personality on reality TV. Whether this shift was orchestrated by producers or the Browns themselves is unclear, but it seems Kody leans into his role as the villain with disturbing enthusiasm.

What started as a show about faith, family, and plural marriage has slowly morphed into a soap opera about narcissism, emotional manipulation, and control. Some fans suspect the showrunners are playing up the drama for ratings, slamming audiences with outrageous statements and actions before they have time to reflect. Others believe that Kody is genuinely lost in the character he’s created—a man so caught up in his own ego that he’s abandoned everything the family once stood for.

Through all the noise, one theme continues to ring loud and clear: the original Brown wives—particularly Janelle and Christine—are the ones who carried the emotional weight of this family. Their strength, grace, and resilience stand in stark contrast to Kody and Robyn’s entitlement and theatrics. And with each episode, more viewers find themselves rooting for these women to continue carving out lives that have nothing to do with Kody’s collapsing empire.

Still, fans caution against one dangerous trend: blaming any member of the family—especially Kody or Robyn—for tragic events like Garrison’s death. It’s a toxic and harmful narrative that does more damage than good. Mental health is a complex issue, and it’s unfair to attribute someone’s struggles solely to interpersonal conflicts. That conversation belongs in a space of compassion, not condemnation.

What Sister Wives is ultimately revealing isn’t just the downfall of a polygamous marriage—it’s a slow, public unraveling of illusion and control. Kody and Robyn’s entitlement may have gone unchecked for years, but the tide is turning. Fans, former wives, and even the Brown children are waking up to the patterns. And if Janelle’s quiet fire is any indication, the days of unquestioned loyalty to Kody’s authority are long gone.

So yes—Kody and Robyn’s entitlement is over the top. But what’s even more powerful is watching the rest of the family rise above it. The story isn’t about the fall of Kody Brown anymore. It’s about the resilience of those who walked away.